A devil-may-care attitude and mediocre game will get you far in your relationship; but the upper echelons of seductive artistry are reserved exclusively for men with social acumen of fanatical proportions. Marginalizing social calamities, leveraging awkward moments, or maximizing your utility at crucial moments are, among other things, your keys to superior game.
Exhibit A: You And Your Girlfriend Are At HER Friend’s Birthday Party. She Is Already Comfortable With Everyone There, You Barely Know Anyone.
This is where you maximize attraction and dump rapport. Leave your girlfriend to go socialize with peasants, maximize charisma in all instances necessary. If you have no social skills, get alcohol and disappear for hours. It is always better to avoid a conversation completely than to try and force yourself into one awkwardly.
By all means, avoid clinging to her side, never ask to leave, don’t get too drunk, and Nuke other hot girls with godlike Game. If another girl flirts with you, you are guaranteed a blowjob afterwards. If another girl asks for your number, refuse to give it. Ideally women want men who CAN cheat but WOULDN’T.
Exhibit B: You And Your Girlfriend Are At YOUR Friend’s Birthday Party. She Barely Knows Anyone.
Maximize rapport; this is where you’re allowed to do all the mushy things your inner AFC dreams of delving in. You can hold her hands under a table (no pda), accompany her to the backyard, spontaneously kiss her, and take care of her if she gets too drunk. You are allowed to stay within 20 yards of her at all times.
Exhibit C: Her Friends
Men universally tend to over-estimate the importance of a girl’s friends. If you haven’t noticed already, women are always getting into relationships that their friends fiercely protest. The only time a girl’s friend’s opinion matters is if she lowers your status (I e; like if you tried to game one of her friends and got rejected).
In general, most of her friends should dislike you as a boyfriend. If they all think you’re the best thing that happened to her, prepare to get LJBFed very soon or dumped for the ex-bf everyone hated. Ideally you want 100% of her friends to both think you’re a jerk, and to want to sleep with you. Realistically, aim for having 70% of her friends hate you and 30% of them liking you. If her friends aren’t complaining about you being a jerk, you aren’t doing things correctly. If after a slumber party your soul is not laid barren upon the floor from a verbal slaying by all of her girlfriends, you aren’t doing things correctly. If her friend’s find nothing interesting about you and never use you as a source of gossip for their deranged needs for drama, you aren’t doing things correctly. If they aren’t awe-struck by your inhuman talents, or magnetically drawn towards your titanic charisma, you aren’t doing things correctly.
Be aware that every thing that ever reaches the ears of any of her friends will get back to her. Don’t resent women for acting like women; use it to your advantage.
On a final note, avoid situations that inherently absolve you of Alphaness, never step foot into a feminine pandemonium, and be calmly aware of social dynamics at all times.
For example be aware that,
- It is much easier to establish dominance when she is over at YOUR place
- When you feel awkward, your body naturally retracts to beta mode
- Any form of PDA is inherently beta (not including when you randomly touch her inappropriately)
- You should never act too impressed by anything
- You should never laugh at jokes that aren’t funny
- Drinking too much and passing out is beta. Drinking too much, passing out, and then having people take care of you or draw on your face afterwards in front of your girlfriend is super beta. Drinking too much and passing out and then waking up next to your girlfriend and 2 other girls is Alpha.
- Not BEING awkward in awkward situations sends seismic Alpha vibes. Be able to laugh at anything at all times. Keep a stash of happy pills underneath your pillow if necessary.
- Getting a lot of attention does not make you Alpha, only an entertainment monkey
- You should never, by any means, ever resort to pity, sympathy, or feminization. When 5 women beg you to put make up on you, you might feel surprisingly keen on saying yes (attention from 5 women simultaneously can make a beta exceedingly dizzy). Don’t. You must never confuse attraction with attention.
The list can go on and on, social acumen comes with experience and open mindedness. As you internalize the alpha you project, it will come naturally to you. “As you think, you shall become”
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