How To Say "I Love You" Or Display Affection Properly

Love Isn’t Weak, But Sounding Needy Is. Here’s How To Show Affection Without Killing Attraction.
Silvyr
July 25, 2025

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Avoid the self-effacing beta dialogue that makes your game seem squishy.

It is not AFC to display affection or show love, the difference is in how AFCs and Alphas go about doing so.

Beta will say:

(a) “Never leave me”

(b) “You’re my everything”

(c) “Can’t live without you”

(d) “I’ll never find someone else like you”

(e) “I’ll never love someone more than you”

(f) “Promise me that you’ll never leave me”

(g) “Life is meaningless without you”

(h) “I don’t deserve you”

(i) “You’re too good for me”

(j) “I can’t believe I’m with you”

(k) “I want to marry you”

(l) “I’m afraid you’ll leave me”

(m) “I’m afraid you’ll leave me for someone else”

Beneath the Romantic tapestry lays a desperate submissive dependency that every women will detect.

Often following these morbid displays of affection comes a swift decline in attraction, lack of sex drive, or outbreak of feminine mania.

The entirety of our feminized society encourages men to say exactly these things,

I e; professing a desperate unconditional love to win over the hearts of women.

Sadly this seldom (actually, never) works.

Make no mistake, once a girl thinks that she is the only source of intimacy you will ever desire / have access to, your fate is sealed.

Alphas can say:

(a) “I love you”

(b) “If you cooked well, I’d marry you”

(c) “you’ll never know how much I love you”

(d) “If you don’t get fat, I’ll stay with you forever”

Etc, the point being to avoid self-deprecation, hints of Oneitis, or using your insecurities as a method to gain sympathy / attention.

It is CRITICAL that you understand the difference between the two methods.

One shows Love through obsessive dependency the other shows love via affection.

There is no such thing as unconditional love; relationships remain in constant flux.

Stay Alpha or stay dumped. Stay attractive or stay single. The choice is yours.

Remeber never saying it first is golden.

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