I’m sure this concept has been beaten to death in the Pick-Up Arena, but perhaps not in the area of long-term relationships despite it’s critical relevance.

It is absolutely essential that you ALWAYS assume your girlfriend likes you.

Doubting your Alphaness and the attraction in your relationship is, like most things in a relationship, a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The doubts begin to creep up, you need more assurance, you start spitting out insecure things, she begins to actually lose attraction.

The need for security and that push for assurance can be vexing for all of us… suck it up.

Confidence is for women what physical attractiveness is for guys; dating a guy desperately in need of “assurance” all the time runs parallel to dating a fat girl constantly in need of snacks all the time.

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What if you can’t help how you feel? Getting over the neural parasites that drive you crazy is apart of your meta-game, an eventual long-term goal.

For now, you just need to do 1 thing, Act. You’ve heard this a billion times, acting confident makes us feel confident.

Saying “I don’t want to do this” makes your mind accept it a little more. The simple ingenuity of it is mind-boggling really.

Just STOP saying insecure things. I PROMISE, it will help your relationship.

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Now obviously this doesn’t mean you follow your girlfriend around 24/7 and call her 15 times a day

Because you assume she’ll like you no matter what. Like all good things in life, you must maintain a reciprocal balance.

The point of “assuming attraction” is not to justify AFC behavior, it’s to prevent you from questioning yourself all the time.

You’re insecurities will ravish your mind if you let them, you must exterminate them mercilessly.

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