Beginners May Find The Process Of Being Unplugged From The Matrix Mind Boggling.

Realizing that women are not attracted to 90% of the things that chick flicks and love stories parade around,

Understanding social dynamics and the thousands of rules that govern female attraction,

And embracing what it really means to be an Alpha Male can be an overwhelming experience.

One of the most common complaints I hear from conditioned men who are used to living their lives in ignorance is:

“Isn’t being Confident supposed to be NATURAL? Why do I need to be aware of so many things?

I feel like I’m more socially paranoid now because I have to be aware of every small detail,

Every little thing that goes wrong makes me even more anxious. Why can’t I just by myself?”

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La réponse à cette question est simple, et je peux l'expliquer par une métaphore encore plus simple.

When I was in college, I was on a dance team. When I first joined, I had never danced in my life

But many of the other members were trained dancers since a young age.

Learning the dance was frustrating enough, what really got to me were the literally

‍THOUSANDS of things that they would tell me I needed to fix.

They would emphasize the tiniest things like “keep your hands for firm, your head is supposed to swerve some more,

You need more swag in this part, your left foot moves a little bit too much towards the right.”

I thought it was ridiculous, and achieving perfection seemed like an impossibility.

When I did the dance the first thousand times, I was choppy to say the least.

I always had to make a STRONG CONCENTRATED effort to fix every little problem I had.

After about 6 months of grueling practice however, things began to change.

Even when we learned new routines, I seemed to be able to pick-up moves effortlessly.

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More importantly, my mind and muscles had conditioned themselves and dance came much more naturally.

I didn’t have to think about thousands of little things to fix, I did everything right naturally.

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Inutile de dire que...

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The Process Of Becoming A Don Juan Is Similar.

At first, we must consciously make an effort to tell ourselves “Shit I’m having approach anxiety, I need to focus on ACTION”

Or “she has her palms open towards me, that’s an IOI.”

But eventually, we internalize these mechanisms of thought and they become habitual.

At first, you may have to think to yourself “I’m an Alpha, I’m an Alpha, I’m an Alpha”

Ten thousand times a day to convince yourself that you are.

But once YOU accept it, it becomes a part of your subconscious thought.

It becomes something deeper, something stronger.

Choosing not to take the necessary steps to change,

Thinking “I’ll just be myself, there’s no need to think about controlling my emotions or reading all this DJ bible material”

Would be synonymous to me simply choosing not to dance.

The process seems impossible and highly artificial at first, but once you plow through your obstacles,

Being the man YOU want to be, being an Alpha Male, being a leader, being CONFIDENT,

Cold reading a girls body language and maneuvering to generate maximum attraction, simply becomes a carnal instinct.

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