Mystery Is Not Generated From A LACK Of Information

it is born from the vigor of a woman’s imagination.

Being mysterious is NOT about avoiding telling your wife where you are or trying to hide certain parts of your life.

It means culturing a natural curiosity in her, one that creates a burning desire to figure out more and more about you.

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Let me give you an example

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One of my friends recently started going to the gym 6 months ago.

He avoided telling his girlfriend what he was doing to create mystery,

He wanted his girlfriend to wonder where he was off to and how he continuously looked better and better as time passed.

Predictably, his method back-fired and his girlfriend became significantly LESS attracted to him,

Because she KNEW that he was TRYING to create mystery.

The aura of mysticism instantly evaporates the moment someone knows you are intentionally trying to be secretive.

It would be synonymous to telling a girl “Hi, I go online everyday and read about websites about seduction

So that I can be good with women,” before trying to pick them up.

If your girlfriend sees that you are making a concentrated effort to be secretive,

It comes off as an attempt to qualify yourself to her, a sign of desperation.

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On the other hand, simply going to the gym would have created mystery without any added effort.

You see, the real mystery lies not in obscure actions but rather in a natural imaginative curiosity that women have.

If you start going to the gym, your girlfriend will begin wondering “Why is he going everyday, why is he working so hard?”

If you pursue your career with ambition, your girlfriend will wonder “What drives him? What makes him click?”

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Golden Rule

WOMEN INSTINCTIVELY MAKE THEIR BOYFRIENDS / HUSBANDS OUT TO BE MYSTERIOUS.

THE ONLY THING YOU NEED TO DO IS MAINTAIN THE MYSTERY AND FEED IT THROUGH YOUR OWN POSITIVE EXCURSIONS ON LIFE.

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Go to the gym, pick up a new hobby, conquer the world.

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Mystery Is created Whenever Something New Comes Into The Table.

Whether it’s a new promotion you get at work, a new language you start trying to learn, or a new place you take your girlfriend out to dinner.

Having your girlfriend think you are a mysterious person simply means augmenting her natural curiosity with new material.

The more NEW things you introduce into your relationship, the more material you create for her imagination to consume.

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