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Oneitis Diagnostic

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Trial Tasks

1

Trial Task Name

Your answers reveal whether you’re bonded to a woman

or to the idea of being chosen by her.

Each must be answered Yes/No:

  1. Do I think about her every day even when I don’t want to?
  2. Do I replay past moments because reality no longer gives me new ones?
  3. Do I feel like no other woman could ever compare to her?
  4. Do I fear she’ll be replaced (by me or others) more than I fear losing myself?
  5. Do I tolerate disrespect or inconsistency because I’m scared she’ll leave?
  6. Do I fantasize about “what we could’ve been” more than I look at what actually happened?
  7. Do I feel a spiritual or “soul connection” that seems irrational or one-sided?
  8. Do I check her socials or wait for her messages like a hit of dopamine?
  9. Do I feel physically anxious when she pulls away or goes silent?
  10. Do I imagine that “she’s the only one” even without strong evidence?
  11. Do I shrink parts of myself to stay “safe” or avoid pushing her away?
  12. If she disappeared forever tomorrow, would it feel like losing myself rather than losing a relationship?
  13. Do I feel chosen by her more than I feel aligned with myself?

Remaining Tasks

  1. Answer all 12 Yes/No prompts.
  2. Count your total “Yes” answers.
  3. Based on your score, diagnose yourself:
    • Love (0–3)
    • Attachment (4–7)
    • Addiction (8–12)
  4. Write a brief reflection:
    • “What fantasy am I addicted to?”
    • “Where am I outsourcing my validation?”
    • “What would reclaiming myself look like?”

Detect Oneitis

Completion Requirements

1

Completion Mark Name

✅ Completion Requirements

  • All questions answered
  • Score calculated
  • Diagnosis written
  • Reflection complete

Detect Oneitis

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
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Trial Tasks

1

Trial Task Name

Your answers reveal whether you’re bonded to a woman

or to the idea of being chosen by her.

Each must be answered Yes/No:

  1. Do I think about her every day even when I don’t want to?
  2. Do I replay past moments because reality no longer gives me new ones?
  3. Do I feel like no other woman could ever compare to her?
  4. Do I fear she’ll be replaced (by me or others) more than I fear losing myself?
  5. Do I tolerate disrespect or inconsistency because I’m scared she’ll leave?
  6. Do I fantasize about “what we could’ve been” more than I look at what actually happened?
  7. Do I feel a spiritual or “soul connection” that seems irrational or one-sided?
  8. Do I check her socials or wait for her messages like a hit of dopamine?
  9. Do I feel physically anxious when she pulls away or goes silent?
  10. Do I imagine that “she’s the only one” even without strong evidence?
  11. Do I shrink parts of myself to stay “safe” or avoid pushing her away?
  12. If she disappeared forever tomorrow, would it feel like losing myself rather than losing a relationship?
  13. Do I feel chosen by her more than I feel aligned with myself?

Remaining Tasks

  1. Answer all 12 Yes/No prompts.
  2. Count your total “Yes” answers.
  3. Based on your score, diagnose yourself:
    • Love (0–3)
    • Attachment (4–7)
    • Addiction (8–12)
  4. Write a brief reflection:
    • “What fantasy am I addicted to?”
    • “Where am I outsourcing my validation?”
    • “What would reclaiming myself look like?”

Detect Oneitis

Completion Requirements

1

Completion Mark Name

✅ Completion Requirements

  • All questions answered
  • Score calculated
  • Diagnosis written
  • Reflection complete

Detect Oneitis

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.

Trial Tasks

1

Trial Task Name

Your answers reveal whether you’re bonded to a woman

or to the idea of being chosen by her.

Each must be answered Yes/No:

  1. Do I think about her every day even when I don’t want to?
  2. Do I replay past moments because reality no longer gives me new ones?
  3. Do I feel like no other woman could ever compare to her?
  4. Do I fear she’ll be replaced (by me or others) more than I fear losing myself?
  5. Do I tolerate disrespect or inconsistency because I’m scared she’ll leave?
  6. Do I fantasize about “what we could’ve been” more than I look at what actually happened?
  7. Do I feel a spiritual or “soul connection” that seems irrational or one-sided?
  8. Do I check her socials or wait for her messages like a hit of dopamine?
  9. Do I feel physically anxious when she pulls away or goes silent?
  10. Do I imagine that “she’s the only one” even without strong evidence?
  11. Do I shrink parts of myself to stay “safe” or avoid pushing her away?
  12. If she disappeared forever tomorrow, would it feel like losing myself rather than losing a relationship?
  13. Do I feel chosen by her more than I feel aligned with myself?

Remaining Tasks

  1. Answer all 12 Yes/No prompts.
  2. Count your total “Yes” answers.
  3. Based on your score, diagnose yourself:
    • Love (0–3)
    • Attachment (4–7)
    • Addiction (8–12)
  4. Write a brief reflection:
    • “What fantasy am I addicted to?”
    • “Where am I outsourcing my validation?”
    • “What would reclaiming myself look like?”

Detect Oneitis

Completion Requirements

1

Completion Mark Name

✅ Completion Requirements

  • All questions answered
  • Score calculated
  • Diagnosis written
  • Reflection complete

Detect Oneitis

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.

Trial Tasks

1

Trial Task Name

Your answers reveal whether you’re bonded to a woman

or to the idea of being chosen by her.

Each must be answered Yes/No:

  1. Do I think about her every day even when I don’t want to?
  2. Do I replay past moments because reality no longer gives me new ones?
  3. Do I feel like no other woman could ever compare to her?
  4. Do I fear she’ll be replaced (by me or others) more than I fear losing myself?
  5. Do I tolerate disrespect or inconsistency because I’m scared she’ll leave?
  6. Do I fantasize about “what we could’ve been” more than I look at what actually happened?
  7. Do I feel a spiritual or “soul connection” that seems irrational or one-sided?
  8. Do I check her socials or wait for her messages like a hit of dopamine?
  9. Do I feel physically anxious when she pulls away or goes silent?
  10. Do I imagine that “she’s the only one” even without strong evidence?
  11. Do I shrink parts of myself to stay “safe” or avoid pushing her away?
  12. If she disappeared forever tomorrow, would it feel like losing myself rather than losing a relationship?
  13. Do I feel chosen by her more than I feel aligned with myself?

Remaining Tasks

  1. Answer all 12 Yes/No prompts.
  2. Count your total “Yes” answers.
  3. Based on your score, diagnose yourself:
    • Love (0–3)
    • Attachment (4–7)
    • Addiction (8–12)
  4. Write a brief reflection:
    • “What fantasy am I addicted to?”
    • “Where am I outsourcing my validation?”
    • “What would reclaiming myself look like?”

Detect Oneitis

Completion Requirements

1

Completion Mark Name

✅ Completion Requirements

  • All questions answered
  • Score calculated
  • Diagnosis written
  • Reflection complete

Detect Oneitis

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.

Trial Tasks

1

Trial Task Name

Your answers reveal whether you’re bonded to a woman

or to the idea of being chosen by her.

Each must be answered Yes/No:

  1. Do I think about her every day even when I don’t want to?
  2. Do I replay past moments because reality no longer gives me new ones?
  3. Do I feel like no other woman could ever compare to her?
  4. Do I fear she’ll be replaced (by me or others) more than I fear losing myself?
  5. Do I tolerate disrespect or inconsistency because I’m scared she’ll leave?
  6. Do I fantasize about “what we could’ve been” more than I look at what actually happened?
  7. Do I feel a spiritual or “soul connection” that seems irrational or one-sided?
  8. Do I check her socials or wait for her messages like a hit of dopamine?
  9. Do I feel physically anxious when she pulls away or goes silent?
  10. Do I imagine that “she’s the only one” even without strong evidence?
  11. Do I shrink parts of myself to stay “safe” or avoid pushing her away?
  12. If she disappeared forever tomorrow, would it feel like losing myself rather than losing a relationship?
  13. Do I feel chosen by her more than I feel aligned with myself?

Remaining Tasks

  1. Answer all 12 Yes/No prompts.
  2. Count your total “Yes” answers.
  3. Based on your score, diagnose yourself:
    • Love (0–3)
    • Attachment (4–7)
    • Addiction (8–12)
  4. Write a brief reflection:
    • “What fantasy am I addicted to?”
    • “Where am I outsourcing my validation?”
    • “What would reclaiming myself look like?”

Detect Oneitis

Completion Requirements

1

Completion Mark Name

✅ Completion Requirements

  • All questions answered
  • Score calculated
  • Diagnosis written
  • Reflection complete

Detect Oneitis

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